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6 Practical Tips To Deal with High Functioning Depression

Coping with high functioning depression can be hard, but before going into details on how to deal with it. You might want to read 7 Signs You May Have High Functioning Depression. This type of depression is a lot more common than you think. According to Anxiety and Depression Association of America (ADAA), approximately 3.3 million people battle with it per year. Many times, this mental disorder goes unnoticed because even though its a debilitating problem, most people are functional. But don’t worry here are 6 practical tips to deal with high functioning depression:

6 Simple & Practical Tips To Deal with High Functioning DepressionGet Organized: For me high functioning depression means forgetfulness and disorganization even though I get things done. I can’t remember important dates, and I don’t get to places on time, among other things. Buy an agenda, and faithfully write down everything, such as doctor appointments, birthdays, projects, movie release dates, when your car oil change is due, when bills need to be payed, even simple things like anniversaries or when you start and finish your menstrual cycle. Your agenda will be your best friend. First thing each morning when you wake up grab it and view what you need to get done during the day and week. This way you don’t forget anything. Tip: write with a pencil, if you need to change a date it will be easier to erase.

6 Simple & Practical Tips To Deal with High Functioning DepressionHome Organization: I used to be such a messy person. I just couldn’t find the energy to put things in the correct place. I used to lose things all the time, like my keys or deodorant. To help yourself out, clean and throw away anything you don’t need anymore. If it’s in good condition you can donate it or have a yard sale. Why? Because extra clutter in your home means it will be more difficult for you to stay organized. Go out and buy containers, decorative boxes, and folders. The trick here is to divide things into their correct places. For example, in different folders place papers by categories, such as car bills in one folder and utility bills in another. In your room divide your shirts in one drawer and pants in another. The same goes with other material things around the house. The trick here is to put things in places that you will remember to look for it. Tip: ask a family member or friend to help you clean and get organized, so it won’t be too overwhelming.

Socialization & Hobbies: High functioning depression comes with isolation. For me, I didn’t want to go out even to my favorite places. To fix this get involved in your favorite activities or hobbies. For example, if you like to practice martial arts, then take classes. This way you are blowing stress off by doing things you love, but at the same time you are socializing with others.

6 Practical Tips To Deal with High Functioning DepressionSelf-Care: The problem with depression, is that you have 0 energy to take care of yourself. In turn your self-esteem will be on the floor. No matter how hard it gets, take care of yourself. I know you’ve heard this all the time, but get enough sleep, drink sufficient amount of water, and eat plenty of healthy meals. Believe it or not what you eat is how you will feel (related: Depressed & Stressed? – Mood Boosting Foods). If you don’t get hungry or thirsty use an alarm clock on your cellphone to remind yourself to eat and drink water. There are even apps you can download that remind you of this, and on the plus side some of those apps are interactive making it fun for you.

Distraction: High functioning depression is complicated in the sense that you are constantly overthinking and criticizing yourself. (related: 11 Easy Tips For Better Thinking) I know I did, and it got to the point I thought so badly of myself that I started to believe it. To counter this, make sure you have healthy pass times to keep your mind busy. For example, starting a new tv series, or reading your favorite book, looking up new artists, coloring, going for a walk, hanging out with friends, going to the book store, etc. The point here is to keep yourself busy, and not let you mind wander negatively.

6 Tips To Deal with High Functioning DepressionExercise & Hygiene: Exercising and good hygiene improves your self-esteem and self-worth. Research shows that 30 minutes a day of exercise for at least 4 days a week will boost your mood. And I know when you are depressed, there is no way in hell you want to get up and move, but trust me it makes a difference. If it’s too much at first, start by taking a walk around the block and gradually add cardio to your routine. Tip: look for fun exercises such as riding a bike, dancing, Zumba, running, sports anything that will get you moving, but it is entertaining for you. Don’t forget to shower, and wash your face and mouth twice a day. This will freshen you up, and lighten your groggy mood.

High functioning depression is difficult to deal with, but not impossible. Take it from someone like me, who has been able to move forward in life despite still having it. If these tips aren’t enough to help you then psychotherapy may be of great use. Don’t be afraid to ask for help. Talking to the right people who truly care will help you. Not only that, but if you end up taking medication for this, then remember there is no shame in that. What are other tips and tricks you use to help cope with your high functioning depression? Let me know in the comment section below. If there are other topics on high functioning depression that you would like me to write about feel free to let me know.

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11 Comments

  1. If you can ever be arsed to contruct a page which people with eyesight difficulties can actually read, I may be interested. That body text is in about 6 point in a shit font. Get a grip.

  2. Wow! I have never heard the term high functioning depression until this article. This is me to a tee. I have always worked gone to school whatever I had to do to get by. But when I get home the tears and the darkness set in and it seems impossible to leave my bed. Thank you for this article. It helps to know you aren’t alone.

  3. Thank you for this post. My depression seems to come in waves, so I have a mantra I tell myself when it’s at its worst. When I don’t want to get out of bed, or clean my house, or go to work, or even just shower, I tell myself, “Right now you don’t care about this. But eventually this feeling will pass and you will care. Don’t disappoint yourself. You will come out of this and be back to your normal self again soon.” I choose not to take medication regularly, so this really helps me keep going. I might not care about myself, my life, or my relationships today, but I might feel better tomorrow and I will care then. I’ll want to have those things in my life. I tell myself that this is isn’t really me, it’s the depression, and I need to stay true to myself and what I know I do actually care about when I’m in a more stable frame of mind.

  4. Since 2years I feel life is doing all shits to me..I try hard to achieve what I want but then things don’t not work out.. In am a second year law student studying in one of the paushest college of Mumbai. THE culture of my college &people are very rich.The way they diplomatically talk, the topic they talk on ..I think I completely have no maturity to understand their culture…What they do feels like fox things..They don’t give a shit to anyone..Much money they have to party at expensive outlets..Because of which Not at all places I can accompany them..Hardly one place I can afford to go with them..This has hardly left any chance for me to socialize with them… I also fear of talking with them..Bcoz the topics, the knowledge,the information I have is veryyyveryyy limited…But I do always try to socialize with them,trying to make them good friends but nothing works out.. They don’t give a shit..I had also joined committees of my college….Hoping that working with them wud help me make bonds….These 2years after entering this college I have lost almost all contacts with my school friends.They feel like talking with me however I feel hiding myself completely. Several times hit the idea of changing the college but then I thought entering new city,new college things doesn’t remain the same ..U have to adjust..But this adjustment is no longer giving me happiness..
    I want to live the way human life is meant.Happily,great sense of humor, doing what I love,making love,developing tastes for what I desire to eat , study ,make good career

    1. Wow, this must be so difficult. Always think about how your mental health. If you believe changing will do you good, then do, but remember everywhere you there will be new difficulties and challenges. Stay strong and good luck <3

  5. Hi Michelle! I really enjoyed your article and the topic of High Functioning Depression is extremely interesting. I think that examples of why these tips are so helpful for people with high functioning depression would help to explain why they are worth giving a try. For instance, what does having a clean space do for your depression? What does being organized produce emotion-wise? Examples help to elucidate how or why these are such vital points.

    It does, however, look like the answers for some of your tips are answered through other tips. For instance, being organized in everything includes being organized with your self-care routines. Setting alarms for eating and taking care of yourself helps to avoid being run down in the long term. Also, participating in hobbies and socializing helps to distract you from destructive habits like over-thinking. These things go hand-in-hand so connecting them or having them lead into one another may be clearer.

    Additionally, what would you suggest to address the lack of “activation energy” required to do some of these things such as socializing, cleaning, and participating in hobbies that often accompany depression?

    I think it would be cool to see an article on your daily routine and how you incorporate these tips into that routine/schedule. Thanks again for writing this article, it’s great!

  6. I am also victim of high functioning depression since 5.5 yrs….I don’t have lack of anything…But everytime I overthink…I feel low often n has trembling heart…I need lots of effort from inside to concentrate on study but all in vain…I have lost my study due to this high functioning depression.. But now I know I m coping with it n can motivate myself to some extent…

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