10 Things That Make An Introvert Irresistibly Attractive

I have a soft spot for introverts. Whether it’s someone I’ve had feelings for or a favorite character from a book or film, more often than not, it’s usually introverts that I tend to be most attracted to. Perhaps it’s because I’m an introvert myself and there’s a mutual understanding between our thought processes and the habits we possess. But whatever it is, I never seem to mind falling under their enchanting spell. Psych2Go shares with you 10 things that make an introvert irresistibly attractive:

1. They’re good listeners.

Introverts tend to listen more than they speak. They have an interest in understanding the way people and things work in the world. So, they listen with the intention of enriching their ability to see more. It comes from a place of selflessness to form better judgment and awareness of others rather than constantly interjecting the self.

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  1. Hello! Thanks for this beautiful article. I just met a new friend, she’s an introvert. Honestly I never had an introverted friend before this, all my friends are extrovert like me. So what I like was how my perceptions when I first met her her turned 360 degree as time passed. The more I know her the more I don’t know about her. I thought she’s a quiet girl but when we started to have the bond she’s actually a very fun and thoughtful person I can ever be with. I learned a lot about introverts with her.

    • Hi Nur, thanks so much for reading! =) I’m glad you were able to make a new friend who is an introvert! The thing about introverts is that they have many layers to them. I’m glad you’re able to see all the different perspectives she has to offer as well as having fun together! Friendships are great when you can be both serious and silly with someone. =) I hope the two of you continue to learn and grow together!

  2. Thanks a ton for this. As a male introvert it can sometimes be really disheartening trying to interact with people, since we’re expected to initiate contact with strangers and especially those from the opposite gender and its not always easy when your mind is full of thoughts. I just hope Mrs SOther will be patient enough to see every layer ???

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Written by Catherine Huang

Catherine Huang graduated from the University of Rhode Island with a BA in English. She has a penchant for storytelling, ramen, and psychology. Catherine is a writer for Psych2Go and looks forward to reaching out to its growing community, hoping to encourage others to tap into self-examination and confront life's challenges head on with the most difficult questions.

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