What makes a person attractive?

Is it their physical appearance, the way they talk, or their Instagram followers?

In life, you meet a lot of highly attractive people.

You know this because you naturally gravitate towards them, just as others do.

How about you?

Do you think you are highly attractive?

If this is a question you’ve been pondering on for quite some time now – maybe someone just told you that you’re very attractive, or maybe you’ve been trying to figure out what to do to become more appealing – then you’ve come to the right place.

This is a list of 7 daily habits of highly attractive people, and it starts with:

1. Maintaining a positive mindset.

Do you let little mishaps ruin your whole day?

For highly attractive people, they don’t.

Instead, they focus on the brighter side of things.

Because of this attitude, they usually turn serious or pressuring events into humorous ones by constantly cracking jokes and making everyone laugh.

Who doesn’t want to laugh?

It triggers the release of endorphins, the body’s natural feel-good chemicals (Robinson et al., 2021).

Naturally, by making everyone feel good, they also gain appreciation in return.

Instant attraction points.

So the next time you trip over or spill some mustard on your shirt, it may help to not dwell on it too much.

Dust yourself off, move on, and go laugh about it!

You can check out The 6 Ways That Positivity Can Change Your Life.

2. Constantly checking up on their friends.

People are attractive when they are caring and thoughtful.

These qualities are highly shown in how they treat their friends.

Highly attractive individuals tend to focus on building a trustworthy circle.

It doesn’t have to be big.

Attractiveness is being genuine. When people see how well they treat those who are close to them, they would want to be treated that way, too.

Start by identifying which friends are worth your time, and cherish their presence and the value they give to your life.

Listen to them and make them feel heard. 

And remember: quality is better than quantity.

There’s also the question Why Do Smart People Have Fewer Friends?

3. Practicing self-care.

Aside from their personality, attractive people are creatures of hygiene and self-care.

Ever wonder why their hair is so nice?

Do you find their fashion sense charming?

Highly attractive people appreciate themselves and don’t hesitate on providing their body the pampering it deserves.

This includes skincare routines, exercise, and following a healthy sleeping schedule.

Keep in mind that these people are not robots and they don’t stick to rigid self-care techniques every second of every day.

They just know what they need and when they need to take it.

Which self-care habit do you find yourself lacking? 

You can start by doing that and gradually incorporating the others until it becomes a practice.

Here are 5 Self Care Tips During Difficult Times.

4. Not caring what others think.

In order to be super attractive, it helps to be unapologetically yourself.

Attractive people recognize that there is no chance for everyone in the world to like them.

They use this to their advantage and do whatever they want.

In the end, haters will hate.

But there will always be someone to support them.

So don’t be afraid to grab your risqué or eccentric outfits or whatever it is you’re afraid of (unless it’s illegal, then don’t).

The world is your oyster. Eat it.

5. Keeping an open mind.

How do you handle disagreements?

Are you understanding of it, or does it usually end up in a fight?

Being able to continue a calm, insightful discussion with a person you disagree with is an attractive trait.

It shows your maturity.

Conflict between different opinions is common in daily life, and attractive people understand that.

Everyone comes from a different background and upbringing. The best thing to do about this is to listen and put yourself in their shoes.

Why do you think they reached that opinion in the first place?

Would you share their mindset if you were living their life?

Keep this up and you may find that a lot more people want to spend time with you.

After all, maturity is sexy.

To read more about this, you can check out How to Open Up The Mind.

6. Taking some alone-time.

Just as how attractive people know when to socialize, they also know when to take time for themselves.

Talking with others can be draining.

How do you know when you’ve reached your limit?

Usually, it’s when you don’t understand a word someone is saying anymore. You’re tired, and the thought of lounging at home watching Netflix is more appealing than ever.

Don’t be afraid to take your downtime.

This can help you gather your thoughts and think back to the events that transpired throughout the day.

What can you improve?

How can you be a better person tomorrow?

Aside from relaxing and taking breaks, regular self-reflection is also recommended.

Use it as an opportunity for growth.

7. Handling conflict well.

Are you easily irritated during arguments?

Highly attractive people know when to admit mistakes.

Especially when it really is their fault.

They are not afraid of being the bigger person and try to understand the other party as much as possible.

This doesn’t mean that they have to take the blame all the time, it just means that there will be days they have to take the high road to deal with the situation properly.

Maybe the other person is just having a really bad day.

However, when the situation calls for it, there’s also nothing wrong with standing up for yourself.

But it always helps to be polite and respectful while doing so.

CONCLUSION

There are many traits people find attractive.

It may range from looks, personality, and talent.

But a really common trait of attractiveness is being a good human being.

It also really helps to be yourself. After all, nobody is perfect and each individual is unique.

There will always be someone who will appreciate you for the way you naturally are.

These habits are not at all difficult to practice, so best of luck to you!

And remember, if you’re continuously finding ways to grow as a person, then you are already highly attractive.

LET US KNOW YOUR THOUGHTS

How many habits can you relate to? Do you consider yourself a highly attractive person? Please let us know about your experiences in the comment section below. We always appreciate hearing your stories. Thank you for reading and see you next time!

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Robinson, L., Smith, M., M. A., & Segal, J., Ph. D. (2021, July 19). Laughter is the Best Medicine. HelpGuide.Org. https://www.helpguide.org/articles/mental-health/laughter-is-the-best-medicine.htm

Saeed, A. (2018, August 13). 10 Habits of Highly Attractive People. Born Realist. https://bornrealist.com/10-habits-highly-attractive-people/

Taylor, K. (2020, August 27). The 7 Habits of Highly Attractive People – P.S. I Love You. Medium. https://psiloveyou.xyz/the-7-habits-of-highly-attractive-people-2e44b037b42c