Hello, Psych2goers! I have a question for you today.
Do you think life would be easier if everyone had a few rules that everyone followed? How about we take a look into some rules that everyone should follow?
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Stop comparing yourself to others.
What other people are doing in life has NO bearing on your happiness. Genuine happiness comes from doing what you love with the people you love and releasing your true purpose in life. It is the process of becoming the best version of oneself. Every person has a unique destiny. Every one of us is on a different road. Each of us has our own set of talents, opportunities, etc. And we’re all on our own in our search for the truth. Living an authentic life that ignites your spirit is the source of happiness.
There is no scale to measure happiness and success.
Happiness and success cannot be assessed in terms of bank accounts, large homes, or expensive automobiles. Happiness comes from within, not from beyond. Pursue your potential. Live your life to the fullest.
Keep Things in Perspective
There may be moments when nothing goes your way, and you will spend the entire day scratching your head, solving problems, and reducing damage. We’ve all had such days, and it’s all too easy to become engrossed in the drama. Gather your wits: this, too, shall pass.
Your pet will get healthy soon, your exams will go well, the noisy construction will be over shortly, and there will be days when you can cross everything off your list. Don’t get too worked up about minor details. Keep an open mind.
You can have it all, but not all at once. You have to be patient.
There is no greater truth than this: you can’t have it all. You only have 24 hours in a day and must prioritize your relationships, job, and your overall well-being. The focus can change on any given day. Life doesn’t have to be complicated, and you don’t have to do everything all at once.
Living simply is living mindfully.
Focus on outcomes, not inputs.
Before you say or do something, consider the prospective repercussions. Before you jump to conclusions, take a look at the bigger picture. Before making big decisions, make a reasoned decision based on thorough and accurate facts. Feel with your emotions, but make your decision with your head. Consider what you’re saying before you say it; resist the impulse to speak everything you’re thinking. Abandon behaviors that are more harmful than beneficial. The key to success is to work efficiently and effectively rather than working a lot. Whatever you prepare for in life, life will prepare for you the same way.
Treat Others with Kindness and Understanding.
We’re often so preoccupied with enhancing our happiness that we forget about how we influence others. This is a major blunder since, according to popular belief, compassion is one of the simplest ways to live a happier life. Acts of kindness provide a more long-lasting and sustainable sort of happiness. As a result, when you develop that gift, you will be able to enjoy more of your days.
Everyone has baggage, problems, and issues, as well as hopes for happiness and the ability to pursue their dreams. It’s hardly a matter of “winner gets it all.” Helping someone out, being kind to them, or even smiling at a stranger would have a rippling effect.
Believe in Yourself, but Recognize Your Limitations.
The first step in achieving all of your aspirations and realizing your aspirations is to accept that you are human: you aren’t flawless, and you can’t do everything on your own.
Always keep things in perspective. Don’t put yourself under so much stress that you can’t move; trust yourself to get the job done, but also be willing to give yourself some leeway.
When you make a mistake, own up to it. Set clear goals and take pleasure in the trip.
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Chatri Sityodtong. 10 Essential Rules For A Happy Life.