10 Signs You Should Try Polyamory (Even If You Think It’s Not For You)

5.    You like to constantly challenge yourself in order to grow.

There is a tremendous power in learning how to love and surrender. The most common reason for people rejecting an open relationship is jealousy. They would rather not deal with the intensity of jealous feelings they would get with the very imagination of their partner engaging with someone else. But what if this experience will teach you to be less jealous and to love with complete freedom? Would this not be like taking an entire weight off of your shoulders? This experience, while still being a very difficult one will teach you to love someone. Fear, jealousy and possession are not feelings that come from a place of love. Consider it a love bootcamp.