10 Signs You Should Try Polyamory (Even If You Think It’s Not For You)

8.    You are aware that nothing is permanent and the risk of losing someone to another is always there. No matter what.

It is a common perspective that allowing a person to see someone else is an immense threat and risk for their primary relationship. They might fall in love with someone else, or like someone else better. However, what some people do not realize is that that risk is always there, no matter how much you lock someone up. If anything, locking someone up will eventually just repel them from you. You know that whether you see other people or not, the finding someone else attractive issue or even falling for someone else will always be a risk!  These things cannot be controlled. If anything, the “forbidden” part is what sometimes makes us want that someone even more!