Hey, Psych2Goers! Have you been crushing on someone lately? Have you lost many hours of precious sleep just thinking about them? What are the chances they’re also thinking about you at this exact same moment? Do you get total butterflies in your stomach when you finally get to see them?
If you’re still at the early stages, and hoping to get into your crush’s good-books, there are some very positive and helpful things you can do to get them to like you.
Here’s are ‘5 Powerful Ways To Impress Your Crush’!
DISCLAIMER: This post is for educational purposes and is based on personal opinions. This post is not a substitute for professional advice, but general guidance. We advise you to always listen to your intuition and always do what is right for you.
#1. Talk About Your Own Passions
Movies and music are great conversation topics to start with. Talking about your favourite action movies or the last amazing band you saw live in concert, is a great way to find out if your crush has similar tastes as you. People are often attracted to those that are passionate. Exploring entertainment and popular culture with your crush can be a great icebreaker!
Listening to someone talk about a topic they love can cause also cause an intense attraction to be created or even continued on your end. It’s a lot more fun than listening to someone rant and complain about the things they hate. Keep it positive!
#2. Listen To Them and Ask Questions
While it’s a very good thing to be passionate, it’s also important to not overdo it. If you want to keep impressing your crush, they should also feel like you’re paying attention to them at the same time. You don’t want to take over the entire conversation. Giving your crush the space and time to talk about their own life will firstly make them feel good. And secondly, more likely for them to open themselves up to you.
You can take things a step further by asking them questions. Being asked those questions can confirm for your crush not only that you’re listening, but also that you care about what they’re saying. They will definitely appreciate actually being listened to!
#3. Be Financially Stable
You don’t necessarily need to be flush with cash. Although, that would certainly be really nice! Having a handle on your finances will impress your crush, because that says a lot about you. If you’re good with your money, you’re more likely able to take your crush out on dates.
If money is hard to come by, this is where you and your crush can try coming up with fun, low-cost things to do together, like grabbing some ice cream or making some home-made art projects together.
#4. Volunteer Your Time
Your time is the most valuable thing that you have. Spending time with your crush can show them how important they are to you because of this. You also don’t want to be spending all of your time with your crush, even if you want it. It’s key to both have your own space and time apart.
Do you volunteer your time with those less fortunate? Do you really care about animals and volunteer at your local neighbourhood pet shelter? It’s great if you do! Telling your crush about this will most likely impress them, because you’re showing how selfless you can be. This is a good strategy, but be careful to not talk about this all the time, because it may come off as “virtue signalling.”
#5. Be Yourself
Most importantly of all, is to just be yourself. It sounds obvious, but that’s because it’s the strongest thing you can do to impress your crush. People know genuine authenticity when they see it. Just like they know how to spot a super fake person at the same time, just as easily.
Play to your strengths and do what you’re best at. Being the most genuine and authentic ‘you’ that you can be!
How impressed do you think your crush will be, on a scale from one to ten? What other ways can you impress your crush that weren’t mentioned in this post?
If you’re feeling confident enough, why not try giving these ideas a shot! And tell us afterward what worked and what didn’t! Hopefully your experience is a great success! A lot of people are rooting for you!
’13 Ways To Impress Your Crush And Get Them To Like You’ by Airyl Marie Dadula (May 19th, 2022) https://inspiringtips.com/ways-to-impress-your-crush/