Signs They Like You But Aren’t Attracted to You

Have you ever wondered if someone likes you, but isn’t actually attracted to you? It can be confusing trying to figure out their true feelings. But don’t worry, you’re not alone. Many people find themselves in this puzzling situation. With that said, here are some signs that can help you figure out someone’s true feelings towards you:

Friendly, But Not Flirty

One big sign is how they interact with you. Do they laugh at your jokes, enjoy hanging out, and seem genuinely happy to be around you? These are signs they like you. But, if they never flirt or give you those lingering looks, they might not be attracted to you. Think about it — if they treat you the same way they treat their same sex friends, it’s a clue.

Comfortable Conversations

If they’re comfortable talking about personal stuff, like family problems or their dreams and goals, it means they trust you and feel comfortable around you. This is great! But it also shows that they’re not trying to impress you or put up a front with you. So it’s likely they just see you as a friend and don’t want anything romantic with you.

Physical Boundaries

Pay attention to their body language. When someone is attracted to you, they might find little excuses to touch you, like a playful nudge or brushing your arm. They might also try to get in your personal space a lot by walking close beside you or sitting next to you. But if they keep a respectful distance, only hug you in a friendly way, or never seem to find reasons to get closer, it might mean they’re not feeling that spark.

Talking About Others

Another sign is if they talk to you about their crushes or ask for advice on their dating life. From a psychological perspective, this behavior can be understood through the concept of social roles and boundaries. By confiding in you about their romantic interests, the person is placing you firmly within the “friend” category. They value your opinion and feel comfortable sharing personal aspects of their life with you, but this comfort does not extend to romantic feelings.

Inviting You to Group Events

Have you ever thought your crush was asking you on a date, only to find out it was actually a group hangout? While these group events can be fun, they lack the intimacy of one-on-one time. If your crush mostly invites you to group activities and rarely seeks time alone with you, it could mean they see you as just a friend. They might enjoy your company and value you as part of their social circle but don’t have romantic feelings for you. 

No Jealousy

If a person is romantically interested in you, they might feel a bit jealous if they see you getting close to someone else. This jealousy happens because they care about you in a special way and might feel threatened by potential rivals. However, if your friend seems completely unconcerned about who you hang out with or date, it likely means they don’t have romantic feelings for you. Their lack of jealousy indicates they see you as a friend and are comfortable with you being close to others. Recognizing this can help you understand their true feelings and manage your expectations.

So, do you relate to any of the things we’ve mentioned here? If you think they only see you as a friend, it’s okay. Friendships are incredibly valuable and can be just as fulfilling as romantic relationships. But, if you’re hoping for more, it’s good to recognize the signs early on so you can manage your expectations and decide what’s best for you.

In the end, whether they like you as a friend or more, remember that having someone in your life who cares about you is what really matters. Keep an open mind and heart, and the right kind of relationship will come your way.

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